Today is Father's Day and I have been thinking about lessons we can learn from the great fathers in the Book of Mormon.
My thoughts go first to Father Lehi. Right in the first verse of the Book of Mormon Nephi pays tribute to his father, as he writes about being born of goodly parents who taught him. I am impressed throughout the account of their wanderings in the wilderness and journey to the promised land with Lehi's love for his children, even when they were not all behaving very lovable. I have always been touched by the phrase in 1 Nephi 8:37 "And he did exhort them then with all the feeling of a tender parent." That's something I think only parents can experience when they want their children so badly to understand the lessons of the gospel.
King Benjamin is another example of a parent who taught his children in the gospel. In Mosiah chapter one we read how he taught his three sons in the language of their fathers so they could read the plates. His most important advice to them is advice I would pass on to my children,
"And now my sons I would that ye should remember to search them diligently, that ye may profit thereby; and I would that ye should keep the commandments of God, that ye may prosper in the land." (Mosiah chapter 1)
Alma the elder teaches us the value of faith and prayer on behalf of children. When an angel appears to Alma the Younger to chastise him the angel says: "Behold the Lord hath heard the prayers of his people, and also the prayers of his servant Alma, who is they father; for he has prayed with much faith concerning thee that thou mightest be brought to the knowledge of the truth.." (Mosiah 27:14) Sally and I know what's it's like to pray daily for the welfare of our children with all our hearts, and are inspired by the example of Alma.
And finally I'm sure that Mormon must have been a wonderful father to Moroni. We don't read about it specificially, but at a time when just about everyone had abandoned their faith, Mormon is somehow able to keep his son, Moroni obedient and true to the faith. We read how Moroni fulfills the commandments of his father to take the plates. With very little room left on the plates, Moroni chooses to write in Moroni Chapter 7 the great discourse of his father, Mormon, on faith, hope and charity. We can surmise that there must have been a very loving relationship there.
There are other fathers mentioned with inspiring stories. Father Adam who chose to fall that man may be. Father Abraham who was willing to sacrifice his son to be obedient and with whom the Lord made the Abrahamic covenant - a covenant that we are a part of and can pass on through celestial marriage.
I'm grateful for my father who taught me as did Lehi and for the opportunity to be a father and grandfather. I'm grateful for my children and grandchildren - each with their own special spirits and talents and gifts that bring me great joy. And I'm grateful for the Book of Mormon and the lessons it teaches about fatherhood.